Thursday, September 18, 2008

indispensable


indispensable..
such a completable words..
indispensable is adjective words that mean absolutely necessary..
ok speaking of indispensable...what is indispensable in your life?
have u ever thinking about it?
yes, i have it..a lot..and it make me keep forward..everyday..
For example, i always thinking that is studying is indispensable?
Usually a simple question likes that will be answers not less a few seconds..hehehe for sure i will answer it..YES..Erm..but there will always a question that need a long time..for came up with a proper answers.Love?it maybe the tough ones..usually i just ignore it.

ok2..now let me share u somethings..indispensable things are not just a things that u need..but its also about how indispensable u are to others.Are people around u aware the existing of u?Are u important to others?Hehehe probably, someone that read this article must be thinks" what the hell of this guys talk.suddenly talking about indispensable". hehe..actually i got my reasons. Be a final year student are tough.Facing many things and try to reach somethings.But the worse of all.Be separating from all your friends. From that, i start to thinking. Am i gonna be someone that always be remember from my friends? Am i gonna be someone that gonna be forgotten?hehehe.. Silly ek..So after a few thought, i decide. Why not i try to be someone that indispensable to others. So, someday i will not be forgotten. I hope so.

So..this is my plan.

Belonging

  1. Listen to your friends without interrupting nor being hurry.
  2. Send them your warm greetings via e-cards( kad raya pn ok kn or just giving testi at friendster)
  3. Tell them how you miss them.( to a guy..probably i gonna sounds weird)
  4. Send them special messages at their birthday
  5. Comfort them in times of trouble.
  6. Introduce them to your other friends to expand their networks.
  7. Buy them gifts when you are traveling(balik kampung for example). Even small gifts matter

Esteem

  1. Ask them how they are doing.
  2. Praise them for the good jobs they have done.
  3. Talk with them about their achievements.
  4. Talk about how good they are in front of your other friends.
  5. Be the first person to tell them about good news involving them.
hahaha..hope its will help..what do u thinks? are this gonna help me? help me from be a schmuck person or i just try to be me.be myself.
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p/s: erm..i donno why suddenly i just post a boring article likes this.hehe..maybe i am bored.Need some holiday..pleazz

3 comments:

Yuyun said...

rasa cam baca article dalam majalah..voice of your head right?hehehe =)but good idea with way u want to make it happen..=)

iCh BiN dAuZ said...

hahaha..yup..my voice in my head...hahah..article in the magazine?hahaha..biase2 je..planning are easy but how to accomplish it are the hard..hehe

Anonymous said...

good fren are always be remembered.=]